After speaking to an 0ld friend over the phone about the recent escapades of my new life, i decided to email the rest of the story. So i began to write my email, planning in advance to keep it short and to the point. The end product, the ‘abridged’ version of what goes on with my life nowadays turned out to be an entire page.
It made me think…
I have all the reason NOT to destroy my life and start a new one, one that I can shape and mold to my heart’s desire. And after reviewing what i wrote, just before sending it, it hit me! I have all the reason to actually do that very thing that I cannot do. They say that marriage is about compromise and sacrifice, more so than understanding and conforming. In my reality, however, things seem to be one-sided, with the other side exploiting selfishly and ruthlessly the very meaning of ‘giving’.
It was like a spark in a dark, wet & humid room when it hit me, but it made me think for a long time afterwards, about choices and decisions that would have been made better, had I had the time and strength to do them right. I was motivated enough, just not brave enough. I suppose that’s the price I’m paying these days.
I lost touch with my former social life, engrossing myself instead with this new one, for the sake of peaceful continuity and overall peace of mind, but the price remains and continues to be too high for my nerves to withstand. Daily I get stronger, and with every passing experience I get wiser-in theory at least. How i use this knowledge and experience remains to be seen, and done.
I discovered something new in myself lately, I’m very good at blaming myself even when I don’t have to. I had a sheltered childhood, always kept close to my mother. When I had the chance to be alone in the world and shape my adult life during my adolescent and early adulthood years, it was marred with tragedies, shameful mistakes and errors, all part of an accumulated life experience. That was until I met someone who became and, to this day, remains to be my best friend.
This is the same friend I was writing my email to, and was speaking to earlier on the phone. As I was explaining myself, I realized that I wasn’t blaming myself well enough for my current state of affairs. “Your life is how YOU want it to be, and how YOU want to shape it!”, I was told.
Funny, that was my initial thought when I saw the first hints of trouble, back when I could afford to back out. But now……it’s an entirely different state of affairs. I can’t back out even if I was given the green light to do so by everyone in my life. I’ve had time to think about this, and this is what I’ve discovered;
The Die is Cast, the ship has left the harbor and has sailed into the ocean of the unknown and dangerous, and I cannot steer it, for it has the wind within it’s sails, and an ocean full of storms and sunshine, and I have neither a raincoat nor a hat with which to protect myself. I can only smile, in remembrance of things past, in reflection of things that could have been, and in the hopes of things that may be, and in the ultimate fate that is staring at me. I can only smile, because I cannot cry anymore. Who to? My comforters are standing on the pier, waving ‘goodbye’ at me, mindful of the dangers that await me, but hopeful of the unknown. Still, the birds still fly over my head, singing their songs.
They are my only comfort now, I shall not ignore them.
بغيناها 5 وصارت 5. و بدأت مسيرة الإصلاح. افرحي يا كويت بشبابك
The Democrats are back. A hope for a better American influence on the World. And a wish that the American people can see the hope that Barack Obama is preaching. Give him some of your time, and read his profound hopeful vision. We can learn from his hope for the betterment of our region, and for Kuwait.
Fernando Alonso. Control, discipline, a proof of human abilities – body and mind. Man and machine in harmony. Technology in its most beautiful and most astonishing.
وأنت أيضا يا فلسطين
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yom el 5ameees ! MA BA’3A E5ALE9 EL CORS !
